Some people think of publishing as an “It’s who you know” industry. And it often works that way.
But I believe it’s not “who you know” as much as “who you are.”
You may think:
- “I’m no one. I’m not published. I’m still adding to my (growing) file of rejections.”
- “I’m no one. My first book didn’t do well and I can’t even get an agent to return my calls.”
- “Sure my series sold well, but I’m still waiting for that big break that will make me the next Dean Koontz.”
Whatever goal you have yet to accomplish, do you feel you’re constantly dodging the next obstacle? Maybe you see yourself as George Jetson, walking his dog on that moving sidewalk outside his space bungalow—walking, walking, walking—but never going anywhere.
I’m not trying to scare you, but maybe it’s not who you know. Maybe it’s who you are.
Are you the kind of writer who:
- Bristles when someone suggests edits you don’t like?
- Doesn’t use standard manuscript formatting?
- Never follows up when an editor requests your proposal—with changes?
- Always asks for deadline extensions?
- Pushes ahead of others to get the seat at the editor’s side at a conference meal?
- Brings every conversation back to you and your project?
- Believes you know it all, but no one sees your brilliance?
Time for a rehab?
If you see any of these traits in yourself, consider whether you may be sabotaging yourself. What changes can you make to be the kind of writer editors want to work with?
Editors prefer writers who are partners in the process—writers who have a long-term vision not just for their own careers, but also for where their work fits into the larger picture.